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By Aimee Terravechia- Editor in Chief

Dear Aimee,
I have two friends that just won't get along. It is impossible to hang out with both of them at once. They are always fighting, and I keep getting pushed into the middle of things. What should I do?

-Stuck in the Middle

Dear Stuck in the Middle,

In situations like these, it is best not to get involved. Try to avoid these confrontations between your friends at all costs, and do not take sides or offer advice to one or the other. Taking sides will only make matters worse, and can cause an unwanted and unnecessary strain on your relationships.

Make sure you lay down the law with your friends as well. Let them know that fighting and arguing around you is simply not allowed. If they don't agree to the terms, then let them know that finding time to hang out with them will be more difficult, if you have to divvy up your "friend time" in order to avoid these confrontations.

If these two individuals refuse to play nice, then you may need to avoid social gatherings that include both of them. Explain how their drama is affecting your relationships with them. Be firm and clear.

Best of luck,
Aimee

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